The reality of love

31st August 2015. 

My 3rd anniversary with the headless guy in the photo. 

Even if you meet the right person who is going to be the love of your life, loving them will still be hard because we are mortals and it is an innate behavior of us to hurt the ones who loves us. Loving someone is hard because you cannot pause yourself from loving that person. You have to constantly love them when in good days and apparently you have to love them even more on their bad days. Loving is an endless act, it is tiring and truthfully, not really worth it at times. But we do it anyway because according to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, love is the very foundation of needs in life. We need it. So we love and love and love tirelessly even when we are fucking exhausted of loving itself.

Books and movies, you have got to stop disseminating unrealistic expectations of love for children because I don't want the future generation to be disappointed by the reality of love like I currently am. 

l8r,

Jaz.